the renewal fees for your domain since 1999?
That's the person who will almost certainly have access to it. If it's not you, and you can't contact your friend, you'll have to prove your right to the name before the parking host (Easy Space) will provide you with control panel access.
Once you have access to your domain name you can do whatever you like with it, and move it to a new host if that's what you want to do.
If you're not sure who the official registrant is you can find out by doing a WHOIS search. If you're not sure how to do that post back here and give us the name, one of us will do it for you.