Ask your friends for their advice and organize a house-keep party.
If they are true friends they will help you.
Don't be embarrassed to ask relatives and friends. They will want to help.
If you don't ask you don't get.
Get a organised and only tackle one task at a time.
Hide all the spare crockery and cutlery away except the set you need. That way you have to wash up before you can eat :o)