<<< in the network configuration under protocol I have add Net buie Tcip and Ipx but I stil cnat get wireless any idea why? >>>
NetBEUI and IPX/SPX are *not* internet-compatible protocols, they are only used for local networking, so you can effectively forget about them. It is TCP/IP protocol that you must have installed for the Wireless Network Adapter. In Windows 98SE, there are separate TCP/IP entries for each network adapter.
After installing the Wireless Adapter and the software provided with it, you need to run the software to scan for "Available Wireless Networks", find the one whose SSID (network name) matches that of your router and "Connect" to it.