<<< I also think it might have something to do with my default gateway but i think I have it fixed. I have it the same as my ip address. >>>
That is definitely wrong.
Have you actually "Connected" to the wireless network? In other words, have you run the wireless adapter's software, scanned for "Available Wireless Networks", found and highlighted the one that matches the router's SSID (network name) and selected the option to "Connect" to it? Once "connected", the little icon will get its "halo" to indicate it is connected to that network and it should then get its correct IP address by DHCP from the router.
The Default Gateway and DNS Server addresses should both be the *ROUTER'S* IP address, not your own IP address in the network. However, all of these addresses should be allocated automatically by the router, you shouldn't have to enter any of them.