It also sounds suspiciously like an assignment of some sort.
"it has to use an MS Access database and SQL is not available and no VBScript if possible".
That is an unusual request by any standards.
I'm afraid I don't know of a solution and I suggest a thorough trawl of Planet Source Code, Hotscripts.com, ASPFree and similar sites.
Before I sign off, I'd also like to mention that the most common code you normally use to connect to an Access database using ASP is, in fact, VBScript.
Finally, I did the briefest search in Google for this:
One of the links on the first Google search page is this (hopefully it will display properly in here)
This is a brief tutorial on e-cards and using Access and ASP.
I'd suggest a further search in Google would probably offer you more results to choose from...