To change the icon:
1. Open My Computer and browse to the folder that you want.
2. Right-click the folder, and then click Create Shortcut. If you are prompted to place the shortcut on the desktop, click Yes.
3. Right-click the shortcut you created, click Properties, and then click Change Icon.
4. Click the picture of the icon you would like the shortcut to use, click OK, and then click OK.
I think this is what you mean,sorry but your post was not very easy to understand.