Hi Marg Did you add your sisters & YOU got an invitation?, wouldn't it be her that gets the invite from you?
The friend says they added me, but they haven't appeared in my contacts list or i haven't had the invite to accept or not. The only time i see them in my list is when i added them.
The mail is valid, as when i add it, i can access their Windows live profile. But, in tools>options>privacy, there's an option to see who has added me in their contact list & my friends email isn't there, although they say they have!
I tried to add myself!, i added my own email to my contacts, the same email i sign into messenger & it said 'once you are confirmed, you can start to communicate', i logged out, then back in & i still didn't ask if i wanted to confirm adding myself, i just was there in my list!! maybe that wouldn't ask me to confirm.
a friend on msn i canceled from contact list, i went to tools>options>privacy & removed from allow list, but they still appear i my hotmail contacts, they then added me & i still didn't get a confirmation request! I guess a confirmation is only needed when a complete stranger to anything to do with messenger/hotmail etc adds me?
Thanks Marg i will block & then delete, i think as you say this will totally make them invisible to me & vica versa! Its just i wonder if i should still have them in my hotmail contacts! Its all quite confusing as you say!
Could your issue be that your not on each others mail (msn or hotmail) list?, just a thought!
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